Mr. & Mrs. Lackner

Mr. & Mrs.

Lackner

Celebrating our Happily Ever After

The Wedding of Colleen & Stefan

The Wedding of Colleen & Stefan

Our Story

Every love story has its own rhythm. Ours took a little longer to fall into place.
Colleen was born and raised in Maysville, Kentucky, where small-town values and big ambition shaped her early on. She later moved to Louisville to attend the University of Louisville, where she worked her way through three degrees, passed the bar exam, and built a career that took her through every branch and level of government, from local offices to Washington, D.C., before eventually returning home to Kentucky and transitioning into the private sector.

Stefan was born and raised outside of Vienna, Austria, lived in Germany, and eventually found his way to the United States, landing, of all places, in Cleveland, Mississippi. He arrived speaking barely English and left with two degrees, a deep sense of discipline, and an appreciation for the long, steady work that comes from early mornings and countless laps.

By 2020, the world had slowed down. For the first time, Colleen and Stefan found themselves living in the same city, even though both were preparing to move farther away. Colleen was planning a new chapter in Chicago. Stefan was looking toward sunshine and a fresh start in the Cayman Islands. Ironically, it took a global pandemic to keep them in one place long enough to find each other.
In that strange stillness, something shifted. They opened an app, started talking, and met in person on September 11, 2020. From the beginning, it was easy. The conversation flowed. The values lined up. They shared the same sense of humor, the same boundaries, and a clear understanding of what mattered. Both had lived enough life to recognize something real when it appeared.

By January 2021, Stefan knew he wanted to marry Colleen. On July 5, his birthday, he took her to dinner at Volare and asked her to marry him. She said yes. Friends and family were waiting at home to celebrate and make the night even sweeter.
A few weeks later, life shifted again. A new wave of COVID sped up their wedding plans, and on July 30, 2021, they were married in a small courthouse ceremony. It wasn’t the wedding they had imagined, but it was full of love and felt exactly right for that season, with the understanding that the celebration would come later.

Their world grew brighter on January 16, 2022, with the arrival of Gabriel, the son who filled their hearts and brought new meaning to every day.
Now, on May 23, 2026, at Hermitage Farm in Louisville, they will gather to celebrate their happily ever after, surrounded by the people who have been part of their journey. Family, friends, and the many connections that have quietly held them here.

Looking back, it’s striking how many moments had to line up just as they did. Different countries. Different paths. Somehow, there was always an invisible string, gently pulling in the same direction long before either of them noticed.
As we stand here today, we are deeply grateful to everyone who has traveled to be with us, whether from across town, across the country, or across many seasons of our lives. Thank you for following that thread and for being part of the story that brought us all here.

Saturday, May 23, 2026

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Wedding Details

Save The Date:
Saturday, May 23, 2026

Venue:
Hermitage Farm
10500 W Highway 42
Goshen, Kentucky

>>Click here for directions

Schedule of Events (Wedding Day)

Time Event Location:
4:30 PM – Guest Arrival Hermitage Farm
5:15 PM – Guests Seated
5:30 PM – Ceremony
6:00 PM – Cocktail Hour
7:15 PM – Dinner – Farm to Table
8:30 PM – Dancing
10:30 PM – 11:15 AM – Exit or After-Party Shuttle Service Shuttles to Hotels

Dinner:
A Farm-to-Table dining experience highlighting local Kentucky cuisine and seasonal ingredients.

Travel Arrangements

Hotels & Accommodations

Room Blocks Available:

1. Bourre Bonne Louisville – Curio Collection by Hilton

2. Residence Inn by Marriott Louisville Old Henry

Booking Deadline:

Book by March 1, 2026 to secure the group rate.

Transportation

Roundtrip Shuttle Service Provided For All Guests

Pickup Locations:

  • Hotel Bourre Bonne, Louisville (Curio Collection by Hilton)

  • Residence Inn by Marriott Louisville Old Henry

Departure & Return Schedule:

  • Shuttles depart hotels at 4:15 PM to Hermitage Farm

  • Return shuttles begin at 10:00 PM and continue until 11:15 PM for after-party transport

Travel Information

Fly Into:

Louisville Muhammad Ali International Airport (SDF)
The city’s main airport is conveniently located just 20–25 minutes from downtown and about 30 minutes from Hermitage Farm in Goshen, Kentucky.

Taxis, Ubers, and rental cars are easily available, and most downtown and East End hotels offer shuttle or concierge services.

Wedding Details

Bride’s Side:

  • Maid of Honor: Diane Simrall & Elizabeth Hall

  • Bridesmaids: Cheryl Byrum, Kerri Cheng, Elizabeth Hall, Shannon Tivitt, Stephanie Jamison

Groom’s Side:

  • Best Man: Vlad Polyakov

  • Groomsmen: Philipp Pils, Marvin van Klev, Jamond Hall, Cagri Sapmaz, Alexander Lorenz

Pairings:

  • Diane Simrall & Vlad Polyakov
    The Ones Who Became Family

  • Cheryl Byrum & Philipp Pils
    The Ones Who’ve Been There From the Beginning

  • Elizabeth Hall & Jamond Hall
    The Ones We Do Life With

  • Kerri Cheng & Alexander Lorenz
    The Ones Who Are Cut From the Same Cloth

  • Shannon Tivitt & Cagri Sapmaz
    The Ones With Big Hearts

  • Stephanie Jamison & Marvin van Klev
    The Ones Who Just Get Us

Weekend Schedule

Thursday, May 21

Groom’s Bourbon Experience

For the Groomsmen & Grooms Friends:

  • Lunch in Louisville (restaurant TBD)
  • Private bus pickup after lunch
  • Visits to two Kentucky bourbon distilleries
  • Evening dinner & drinks at Watch Hill Proper, Louisville


Bride’s Schedule:

Activities TBD — details to follow closer to the date.

Friday, May 22

Rehearsal Dinner:
Location TBD (evening, invite-only)

Saturday, May 23

Family & Friends Day

  • Ceremony & Reception: Hermitage Farm 4:30 PM-10:30 PM
  • After-Party: Hotel Bourre Bonne Rooftop Lounge (10:30 PM – 12:30 AM)

Sunday, May 24

Farewell Brunch

Time: 11:00 AM – 1:30 PM
Location: Hotel Bourre Bonne Restaurant
A casual farewell before departures.

FAQ

What should I wear?

This is a formal, black-tie–optional celebration. We encourage tuxes or dark formal suits for men and floor-length gowns for women. Dress to celebrate and stay comfortable enough to dance.

Will there be a ceremony?

Yes. We’ll gather together for a meaningful ceremony, followed by cocktails, dinner, and dancing.

Are children welcome?

While we love your families, this celebration is planned as an adults-only evening. We hope this allows everyone to relax and enjoy the night with us.

Do you have a registry?

Your presence truly means everything to us, and we do not expect gifts. If you feel moved to honor this celebration in another way, we would be grateful for a contribution to an organization close to our hearts.

Explore Louisville

Welcome to Louisville — the home of bourbon, bluegrass, and hospitality. Whether you’re staying for the weekend or extending your trip, there’s plenty to see, sip, and savor.

Bourbon Experiences

Louisville is the gateway to the Kentucky Bourbon Trail®, and some of the best distilleries are right in the heart of downtown:

  • Angel’s Envy Distillery – Guided tastings and cocktail classes in a modern setting.

  • Old Forester Distillery – The only distillery still located on historic Whiskey Row.

  • Rabbit Hole Distillery – Contemporary architecture and creative bourbon pairings.

  • Evan Williams Bourbon Experience – Immersive bourbon history and tasting downtown.

Museums & Landmarks

  • Muhammad Ali Center – A moving tribute to Louisville’s most iconic hometown hero.

  • Frazier History Museum – Start of the official Bourbon Trail® and Kentucky heritage exhibits.

  • Louisville Slugger Museum & Factory – Baseball history meets interactive fun.

  • Speed Art Museum – Classic and modern art near UofL’s campus.

  • Louisville Science Center – Great for families, featuring the Sugar Museum exhibit.

  • Churchill Downs & Kentucky Derby Museum – Experience the thrill of the track year-round.

Outdoor Highlights

  • Waterfront Park & Big Four Bridge – Walk the river and enjoy skyline views.

  • Cherokee Park – Scenic trails and picnic areas designed by Frederick Law Olmsted.

  • Locust Grove – Historic estate and gardens showcasing early Kentucky life.

Where to Eat

  • Volare Italian Ristorante – Where Colleen and Stefan got engaged.
  • Repeal Oak Fired Steakhouse – Bourbon and wood-fired perfection on Whiskey Row.
  • The Brown Hotel Lobby Bar – Classic Kentucky charm and home of the “Hot Brown.”
  • Jeff Ruby’s Steakhouse – Iconic Louisville dining with live music.
  • River House – Fresh seafood and riverfront views.
  • LouVino Highlands – Southern-inspired small plates and fine wine.
  • Proof on Main – Farm-to-table cuisine in the 21c Museum Hotel.
  • GraleHaus – Cozy brunch spot in the Highlands.
  • Biscuit Belly – Perfect for a casual sendoff with biscuits and coffee.

City Vibe & Amenities

Louisville perfectly blends Southern hospitality with urban sophistication.

Enjoy boutique shopping and coffee in NuLu (East Market District), live jazz and cocktails along Whiskey Row, and a growing arts scene woven through every neighborhood.

The downtown area is walkable, ride-share friendly, and rich in bourbon lounges, rooftop patios, and historic charm — all just a short drive from Hermitage Farm.

A note from us

We are so excited to welcome you to Louisville, our home and the place where our story comes full circle. From bourbon barrels and horse farms to museums, music, and unforgettable food, we hope you take time to experience the spirit of Kentucky as we gather to celebrate our happily ever after.

This weekend is a moment to pause and reflect on the life, love, and laughter we have built together. Sharing this chapter with the people who mean the most to us makes it all the more special.

RSVP

*** Please RSVP by February 15th